Look no further. I, pledge to you, my fellow brothers and sisters with disabilities to put my heart and soul into this column to give you as much insight to the male mind and male heart as I possibly can. While I can’t obviously speak for all men, I do believe my generalities will be extremely insightful for you.

Furthermore, considering that I have been a man for 38 years (my entire life…hey, I had to cover my bases here), I do have a level of knowledge and expertise on the subject.

So, let’s lay-out some of the ground rules for this column…

If you have a question on any subject in which you are seeking to learn more about the wonderful, wacky, and weird mind of a man, I want to hear from you.

As you may know, there is no such thing as a "stupid" question, but there are "stupid" answers that I will do everything in my power to avoid giving you.

When you write me on any subject, whether it be a relationship, your marriage, sex, fatherhood, friendship, colleagues, fantasies, you name it, be prepared for direct and honest responses that may ruffle your feathers at one moment or have you with an ear to ear smile the next.

I only know how to be honest with my audiences when speaking or coaching, so needless to say, that will carry over to this column.

If there is something that I write that you disagree with, awesome! Wouldn’t this world be so boring if everyone agreed with me or anyone else for that matter. Imagine if after trying to prove our points, we could all just agree to disagree. Wow, wars would come to an end if everyone subscribed to this notion!

We are fascinating creatures once you get to know us. So here is your chance!

Please send me your questions, comments, etc. to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it and we’ll get rolling with some helpful strategies, techniques, and insights that the man or men in your life will be scratching their heads wondering, "How does she know me so well!"

Until then, just know that behind every good man is a great woman!

Scott Da Man!

Scott Chesney is an internationally recognized motivational speaker and life coach, reaching over 1.5 million lives in 38 countries. He has been paralyzed for nearly 23 years as the result of a rare spinal stroke. For more information on Scott, please visit his website at www.scottchesney.com .